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The Silver Bullet
Its that simple. And that hard.
You know the feeling.
Someone walks in and the air changes. Not because they’re loud or polished. But because they’re there.
No posturing or pitch. Just presence.
When someone’s done the work to know who they are, they don’t have to convince you of anything.
They don’t need to sell you. They’ve got nothing to prove and everything to offer.
And that? That changes everything.
This isn’t just leadership.
This is how you walk into a room.
How you show up in a marriage.
At a team meeting. At the dinner table.
In the mirror.
People don’t want another version of “crushing it.”
They want to be seen.
They want to breathe around you.
They want to know they can set their armor down.
MK Getler-Porizkova is that kind of leader.
We’ve never met in person. Just a screen between us.
Didn’t matter. Their energy cut through all of it.
Grounded. Clear. Undeniably human.
We talked about what happens when you stop performing and start leading with presence. The kind of presence that creates space and gives other people permission to exhale.
That’s the silver bullet.
Not your funnel. Not your booth. Not your perfected slide deck.
It’s the way you lead yourself.
And it ripples.
To your team.
To your customers.
To your brand.
To your kids.
To your community.
It’s the simplest thing. And the hardest.
If you put out noise, don’t be surprised when that’s all you get back.
But if you show up honest, whole, and human, watch what happens.
Sometimes you don’t need a strategy. You need a mirror.
Be great,
Sam
P.S. That ripple I’m talking about? We’re building it at Arcadia.
Not just better companies. Better humans.
See you this summer ArcadiaLeadershipExperience.com